2016

 

This was the year when my self-confidence began to grow. A good foundation was formed.

The previous year, I had already gone on an island writing retreat. I enjoyed it so much I joined for a second time.

After that, I began looking forward to more local travel adventures, both for work and on my own. I got used to doing things by myself and meeting new people.

I had just started this blog and began attending more writing events, connecting with fellow enthusiasts and African authors. As I entered my thirties, I reached out to a group of inspiring women to contribute to this series about being a woman.

I enjoyed my job, assignments and deliverables and began a contract as a full staff member. I felt like a real grown up 😀.

I was becoming more creative, developing new core professional skills and with encouragement started speaking up more in work meetings. 'Taking up space ' and finding a 'seat at the table' is what they called it then. This was also when my workaholic tendencies began, as I could focus on delivering rather than office politics. I was always available. My manager and team supported and nurtured me, and I loved every minute of it!

I started wearing lipstick and took more pride in my appearance. Despite my protests, my sister-in-law convinced me that I could look good with different shades. She was right. I began to enjoy getting ready in the mornings.

2016 was a good year, even though the ever-present worry and doubt still nagged at me, just as it does today. I kept moving forward, believing in the opportunities the future would bring!

This all reminds me that even back then, I didn’t believe life could be good to me, but it actually was in many unexpected ways.

In the comments, tell me about your 2016. Any life lessons learnt?