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Watch New Life Begins - Revisiting an ensemble gem with enduring and comforting appeal

Saturday, 13 June 2026

 



This show is a cute comfort watch, and with everything happening in the world, I think we all need something like this from time to time.
I watched this show again after seeing it when it first came out, but I never got around to writing about it. I liked it just as much the second time as I did the first.

In a grand court contest, the unassuming Li Wei (Tian Xi Wei) is unexpectedly chosen to marry Yin Zheng (Bai Jing Ting), the least favoured of the six royal heirs. Initially thrust into a marriage of political convenience, they seem doomed, but they form a genuine connection as they navigate their new roles and learn about each other.
The world-building and storytelling in the beginning episodes is chef's kiss. The way the stop motion animations explain the regions, cultures, and ethnicities really pulls us in. Also, the way in which we are introduced to the ensemble cast and the fact that it becomes clear this drama needs everyone, from princes and princesses to the wives and servants; each actor plays their role well.



This show is really about women, their friendships, rights, and finding freedom. We see women facing struggles in their family homes, in their marriages, and trying to be recognized in the outer world. When they support each other, and have some supportive men as allies, they succeed. It's comforting to watch because you know good will win in the end. There are lots of strong female leads (Chen Xiao Yun, Liu Ling Zi, Fan Shuai Qi, Liu Meng Meng, Chen Zi Han, Smile Hu, Wang Yi Yao) here, and they show strength in many ways—as royal family members, wives, co-wives, mothers, sisters, friends, business partners, and in their communities. There are many layers to this, but the show keeps things light and cute, not too heavy.


Almost everyone in this show is funny except for the crown prince (Edward Zhang), who is the villain. What I like is how the mood shifts right away when the story moves to his home—suddenly, nothing is funny, just cold and tense. Honestly, I think the drama should have ended after his downfall. The fourth prince and his wife tried to plot, but they just couldn't match the crown prince's menacing vibe.


My favourite moments were the third prince's antics. Every time he (Liu Guan Lin) came on screen with his wives, I knew it was going to kick off, but ultimately, when the story twist in episode 23 came and he could understand what he put them all his wives through - the build up and the comic timing was fantastic! He has a good story arc in this one.



The actor, Chang Long, who plays the fifth prince often takes on similar roles in other dramas, but this time, along with the slap stick humour, his character had an emotional story arc too. His damaged relationship with his father, the Lord of Xinchuan, was handled really well.



The show gives us a satisfying #cdrama ending: the main couple gets married, and the royal wedding doesn't feel rushed. All the storylines wrap up nicely, and we get a great reunion with all our favourite characters on the palace roof. The pacing of the episodes and the whole story is really well done.

Overall, this show is enjoyable and makes for a comforting re-watch that you can find on all the usual platforms including You Tube.

P.S: Yes it's true that the show takes what have been called problematic historical cultural elements and tries to make them seem cute or funny. If this bothers you, then this probably isn't the right #cdrama for you.



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Death and final wishes

Wednesday, 27 May 2026

 


I have been reflecting on my own death—not death in general, just mine.


Last year, I became very sick. According to my medical files, I was dying when I arrived at the hospital. I had no idea how serious it was—I just thought I had the flu and felt unusually weak. I woke up days later on a ventilator in the ICU, completely unaware of where I was or why I was there. It was the sickest I have ever been and the longest character-building recovery I have faced. My mum would know best, I doubt she would contest but she isn't here for me to ask.


My siblings and extended family had to go through it all from afar because I am here in Italy alone. The hospital staff and my colleagues stepped in to help me in ways I never expected. It was so serious that one of my brothers had to eventually travel here and help me for almost three months. I will never be able to thank them all enough. They saved my life and cared for me with so much kindness and grace.


Like many others, I avoided thinking about it. I foolishly thought I still had time. But remembering how quickly, unknowingly and 'quietly' I almost went to meet my Maker last year has made me realize it's time to start having those scary discussions. 


If I die in another country, should my family pay to bring my body back? What options do they have? Please God, when you decide to take me, let it be when I am back home.


In Uganda, people attend funerals whether they know the person or not. Grief is a community activity. How will they feed people at mine? What about the tents and white plastic chairs? Food, the ladies who cook, tents and chairs can be expensive. And what about the prayers and the vigils? Who should inherit what, and do they know where everything is?


I would appreciate the prayers and one good small mass, but I wouldn't want unnecessary money spent that could be used elsewhere. The current economy is tough one.


Yap😓...It really is time for me to start having these conversations and begin writing a will.


What about you? Have you thought about these things yet? I know.... it's an awkward question, so no need to share in the comments, but do take some time to reflect.

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Watch Pursuit of Jade - For the Top -Tier Cast, Memorable Villains, Battlefield Betrayals, and Exceptional OSTs

Saturday, 16 May 2026

 


This masterpiece grabbed me from the very first episode and 
kept me hooked until the end. Pure magic! For once, the online hype matched the drama.

The story follows Fan Chang Yu(Tian Xi Wei), a butcher’s daughter, and Xie Zheng (Zhang Ling He), a fallen noble out for revenge. Their pretend marriage slowly turns into real love as they get to know each other and face challenges. But war and politics pull them apart. Fan Chang Yu bravely takes her butcher’s knife to the battlefield, looking for justice and her husband. At the same time, Xie Zheng reclaims his Marquis title and fights to protect his country and seek justice for his mother and his army.



The best thing about this #cdrama was honestly everything—the world-building, the lead actors, the production design, the costumes, and the supporting cast. The OSTs were all memorable and catchy.
Some of my favorite moments include:
  • The Marquis of Wu’an ’s return to the army, especially the scene with the pheasant feathers head piece, was amazing. The actor did an exceptional job, and the soundtrack was fantastic too!
  • When Fan Chang Yu introduces her husband to the Grand Princess Qi Shu and doesn’t realize they already know each other and grew up together —I couldn’t stop laughing. Both of them are lying to her about who they are in this scene so they had to reluctantly help each keep up the pretense.
  • Watching Song Yan faint when he realizes  Fan Chang Yu's husband is the famous Marquis of Wu’an was hilarious.
  • When the pig-butcher squad reunites in the stone quarry (Li Dian Zun, Sun Kai, Wu Yi Jia, Nine)
  • When our Fan Chang Yu realizes her husband is the legendary Marquis of Wu’an and he chases her across the battlefield—another beautiful OST moment.

The lead couple played their roles so well that it will be hard for me to watch another drama without comparing.  Their chemistry was incredible! Watching them face challenges and protect each other was adorable. The #cdrama community say it’s because the director, Zeng Qing Jie, coached them through all the intimate scenes. 




The villains—the two Sui princes (Deng Kai and Lin Mu Ran) and the uncle, Prime Minister of Yin—were also memorable. Usually, we only fall for the male lead, but in this drama, you end up liking everyone, no matter how much of a red flag they are. We got well built characters with stories and arcs that stand strong on their own, thanks to the book and the script writer. For example the dynamic between Qi Sheng and Wei Yan - when uncle (Yan Yi Kuan) slaps the emperor like it was nothing, I flinched. It showed us who the most powerful man in the nation really was.



I also want to give a special mention to the supporting cast—from the second lead couple (Li Qing and Yu Zhong Li) to the villagers (Liu Lin, Yue Yang, Jia Ni, Fu Miao, Xiang Xia, Gao Yu Qing, Snow Kong, Cao Yan Ning )  the battle scenes (Lu Yong, Li Jian Yi, Tong Hu, Shawn Zhang)  and even the palace (Guan Yun Peng, Lily Tien). The acting and storytelling were stellar, and everyone held their own. We fell for everyone in this one, so much so that we are still grieving the losses. 



However, during the last few episodes... everything crashed. It was disappointing because the build-up was soooo strong, especially with the early episodes with the suicide assassins and flashbacks to the mysterious tragic fire in palace that killed the crown princess and her 'son'. I got confused and had to rewatch to figure out who did what, and when I finally understood after some TikTok research, I just felt really sad for the main characters. They can’t go back to how things were in the village when they first met because now they have to help the new child emperor and empress dowager. Also, I felt Fan Chang Yu became a general too easily. I could see her growing as a soldier, but advising on leading the country seemed like a stretch. Xie Zheng also becomes like his uncle in the end, sacrificing his life to hold the country together. 

We didn’t need two episodes of the Marquis being drugged and dragged across the palace, lusting over his wife. I wanted to see more of him as a fighter and strong strategic military leader, like the scene in the military camp when he tells the royal eunuch that he’s the one keeping the emperor on the throne and could remove him at any time. I wanted more moments like this because they built up all this tension around his ruthless persona. I wanted to see more of an internal struggle between who he had to be in the past and who he wants to be now that he is with Fan Chang Yu.


Towards the end of the drama, we never really lose hope. In the best cdramas, you lose all hope that things will work out for your heroes until the very last minute when somehow something clicks and things turn for the good, but here, they were never  in any danger once they reached the capital city. They had already fought their battles and defeated most of the major enemies (some too easily). Only one was left, Qi Min/Sui Yuan Huai,  and in that fight, you could tell there wasn’t enough budget to make it as epic as it should have been.

But I think we can forgive the ending, because it is rare to get our hit drama so early in the year and I can't wait to watch Zeng Qing Jie's next project.

This is definitely one of my top ten!
You can watch it on all the usual platforms including Netflix

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Watch Boyfriend on Demand - When romance is just a click away

Sunday, 19 April 2026


I started watching because of Seo In Guk, the king of romance,
 but it was Jisoo who kept me hooked until the very end.

The story is about Seo Mi Rae, a webtoon producer who escapes her busy life by joining a virtual dating app. Played by Jisoo, Mi Rae wants another shot at love, since her real-life dating life is almost nonexistent. She gets a ‘Boyfriend on Demand’ device by chance, which lets her enter a virtual world full of perfect boyfriends and stirs up her hidden hopes for romance. Park Gyeong Nam, played by Seo In Guk, is Mi Rae’s coworker and rival. Even though he’s good at his job, Mi Rae always feels a bit uneasy around him.

Jisoo truly surprised me with her performance. She became Mi Rae so completely that I forgot I was watching a celebrity. Sometimes, it is hard to get into a story when the lead is a global superstar. This was my first time seeing her in a #kdrama, and she really brought this character to life.




The show does a wonderful job capturing the messy, bittersweet experience of being young and navigating love, breakups, and all the emotions in between. It strikes a perfect balance as a comfort watch, relatable without ever becoming too heavy or overwhelming.


 I enjoyed how it wove in the ethics of AI and the fantasy of a dating world built to give women a safe escape from reality, letting them fall in love without the risk of heartbreak. If you are looking for a deep psychological dive, this is not it; the story keeps things light and dreamy, never tipping into thriller territory. The moments when the app tried to lure Mi Rae back in with postcards, calls, and texts from her fantasy boyfriends, all insisting they missed her.... were kind of sinister. When she chooses to log off and start dating Park Gyeong Nam, her AI boyfriend reminds her that he is the safest choice, designed to make her happy and never change like real men do. That moment frightened me, as Mi Rae is actually torn between the comfort of fantasy and the uncertainty of her real feelings. The show captured this well.




The supporting cast and guest roles made me happy, especially seeing some of my favorite actors like Gong Min Jung, Ko Kyu Pil, Jo Han Chul, and Yoo Seon Ho. Ha Young was a delight and made me laugh every time she was on screen.



It took six episodes for Seo In Guk’s signature romantic swagga to finally shine through. In his other dramas, he usually grabs your attention from the start, but here, the spark took its time. I enjoyed the first five episodes that focused on fantasy dating tropes, but I worried about the lack of chemistry between the leads and wondered how the show would bring them together. When it finally happened, it was pure magic. Their journey from confession to dating was adorable and hilarious, though I wish Seo In Guk’s character had been more present as an equal lead throughout. When the ideal AI boyfriend appeared looking just like him, I was genuinely surprised, since up to that point, we knew so little about his character beyond being Mi Rae’s colleague and rival.





All in all, this is a great pick if you are craving fluffy,
 comforting K-drama vibes. I caught it on Netflix.




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