Dearest Mum, I am sitting here having my morning cup of coffee on the verandah. The neighborhood cockerels are cock-ka-doodle-doing,The day is beginning,the sunlight is inviting, and my self sabotaging mind is already at work. I have been dating this man for a while now, and I really want your opinion.I want to know some more about you and Dad. I...

I am supposed to be a 'good girl', You know the type. Reads her bible.Goes to church every Sunday. Washes the dishes, pots and pans till they sparkle.Kneeds the dough for chapatis without  breaking a sweat.Peels matooke with speed and preciseness.Makes sure  her home-made Mandazis are a soft bubble of sweetness when they hit the tongue.Cook  luwombo that makes men's...