I have only just started reading the book Brida by PauloCoelho. I bought it for 7000ugx at a Nakumatt Book Clearance sale about a month
ago. I have read The Alchemist before, but my favorite Paulo Coelho book is Veronika Decides to Die. I find it really fascinating how he writes such simple stories
to explain such profound things. His stories remind me of the kind you’d hear
around a camp fire at night. I often
wonder where his inspiration comes from. How does he piece his stories
together? How does he spend his days? When his muse appears does
he lock himself up in his office and write profusely? Does he sit for hours on
end just meditating on the concept of 'life'? Is he part of some
secret society? I am scared to google
him in case it ruins the mystery for me.
Back to the Brida story… I am already 50 pages in but I am hooked.
I know that when an avid reader finds a good book they must enjoy it slowly, because
who knows when it will happen again? It might take me days, months or years
before I stumble on another book that excites me just as much. Or worst case scenario
the beginning of a book draws me in, and then the plot betrays me and falls
apart, like a glass of accidentally spilled wine… then before I know it I’m lost
in an inescapable maze of a book that started off so well. I have read some reviews about the book on
Goodreads and I am a little deflated, I hope I won’t be disappointed like a majority
of readers. So for now I shall stick to writing about the first chapter. I may be
in denial. Oh well…
In the first chapter, Brida goes off to find a special
spiritual teacher, who decides for her first lesson, to leave her alone in a
forest at night. This would send any normal person into panic, but there are
some clever hidden lessons in this writing….
"There was only the strange noises. Brida felt dizzy with fear she thought she might faint. But she mustn’t. Now that she was quite sure he was nowhere around, fainting certainly wouldn’t help matters. she must stay in control." ~ Paulo Coelho
For me, this speaks about life in general. Life is hazy
sometimes. Often, I can’t see the bigger
picture. There are many times when we are trudging through the day by day routine,
unable to see the point of our existence or where we are going. It can be
disappointing, scary, boring and depressing. I have experienced moments when I have
just figured out one situation only to be thrust into another. It can be a
professional situation, a family situation, friends etc… How do we keep selves together
during those times? How can we learn to cope with dark situations? How do we
use them to our advantage?
“When she was a child, she would sometimes wake up in the middle of the night, feeling terrified. Her father would carry her to the window and show her the town where they lived. He would talk to her about the night watchmen, about the milkman who would already be delivering milk, about the baker baking daily bread. Her father was trying to drive out the monsters with which she’d filled the night and replaced them with the people who kept watch over the darkness. ”~ Paulo Coelho
There are so many
hidden messages in this one paragraph.
- Brida’s father showing her that the night is necessary in life.
- Her father showing her a different perspective to the darkness.
- Night is not just the absence of light, but a time which people use the precious quiet time to prepare for the day, even to keep others safe.
Then there is the
reference to the monsters Brida created.
Fear in our minds + cuppled with a lack of understanding of
the darkness + impatience = A whole
multitude of ‘monsters’.
Then as Brida takes us through the memory of her father’s
lesson, we are reminded as readers, that she is recalling all this while laying
alone in a forest where she was left by the teacher. She had to be still in the
moment to do this.
She had to find the stillness within her, in a frightening
situation.
She has to be patient with herself as she learns to navigate
through this strange experience.
How many times have
we been surprised by our own strength in unfamiliar challenging situations?
In the end, she makes it through the night and leaves the
forest in search of the next lesson. The fear is forgotten. She walks away with
the additional tools she needs to get through the next moment of darkness
"The night is just part of the day. Therefore she could feel as safe in the dark as she did in the light. It was the dark that made her invoke the protective presence. She must trust it. And that trust was called Faith. No one could understand Faith, but faith was what she was experiencing now, an inexplicable immersion in blackest night." ~ Paulo Coelho
I can’t wait to read the rest of the book…..
Quick Update....
The first chapter was the best and only good chapter in the book. I feel betrayed. (#JustMyOpinion)
Dear God,
I guess we are due for a check in.
First, I have hit a milestone in life and I just wanted to say THANK YOU!
Secondly, In 2014 I wasn't sure which direction you were pushing me in but it seems you knew what you were doing all a long. You also cleaned out a huge chunk of negative energy that was harming me in my professional life. I didn't realize it was harmful, till it all left. As usual you knew all along. I wonder what else you have planned for me. I surrender Lord. I am ready.
Before we continue I got the news that someone close to my family passed away. I pray they returned to you safely Lord. I know you were ready to welcome them home.
Let's now continue.
I watched a video today that taught me about forgiveness. This video made sense to me.
I feel like You and I are working on forgiveness right now, because a certain someone keeps coming back into my life. Well quite a few people keep coming back.... I am not sure what to do with them Lord. I realize, that they are fragile. I realize that they need help. That they are lost. However they are the type of people who can't see that within themselves. They are the type of people who can't see the value in getting help. Emotional wounds cut deep and they are in my humble experience the hardest to heal if the person won't admit they are hurting. The idea of being vulnerable is just too much for them. We have been wondering around this same lesson for quite some years now. It's like a stain in my window I can't remove. I keep pushing these people away, and they keep coming.
I have nothing but positive energy for them, but I can't physically show them because they hurt me in the past. The good news is I forgave them a while ago. I just don't want them in my life because, I forget so easily.
I am afraid if I forget I will welcome them back and they will hurt me again. So I have to put up walls.
But I want the narrative in my head to change. I no longer want to appear to be a 'cold' person just cause they are in the room. I want to be myself, and know that I won't be taken advantage of. I want to be at peace in my surroundings.
This whole forgiveness thing is not easy. I forgive them but I must prevent the same pattern from occurring again. So I shut them out. Shutting out people who don't know themselves or acknowledge the consequences of their actions is a LOT of work . It's hard work because I have to be a bit selfish and not explain myself. I don't want to be in that same sad space again. This is part of protecting myself. I really don't want to worry about the next time they are going to stab me in the back, so I must remove all opportunities for them to do so.
Can't I hand my deepest worries about the situation over to you God? You do know best. Can we stop the back and forth on this lesson now?
I think that's all for now, until the next letter
Love
Maria
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