- Eating healthily, even while being on a calorie deficit. It manageable one, I don't in the least bit feel heavily restricted, I just keep asking myself why I allowed myself to overeat in the past.
- Staying active and starting to enjoy exercise, while also seeing the benefits of strength training home work outs. I wanted to make changes that would gradually become part of my lifestyle.
- Taking a couple of days off here and there for my mental health, and spending them reading books, listening to classical music or calming lofi, then watching the latest #cdramas.
- Doing small things to make my apartment a cozy and a safe haven, and enjoying being a home body for now.
- Continuing my journey to build self-confidence, being assertive, and reflecting on other areas for personal development.
- Having no guilt....absolutely no guilt for choosing to take care of myself
No one told me about the beautiful train station.
"Oh yeah, they have a beautiful station, but no one ever talks about this." says my friend as we weave our way to the subway station.
It was my first beautiful surprise, but I had to stop myself from staring too wide so that I wouldn't become a magnet for pickpockets. At least I had been warned about them.
This is what Italy does to me, leaving me in awe at something that is daily scenery for many.
Just like the TikTok videos, the Duomo di Milano greets you at the top of the stairs of the subway station exit. The details—I wasn't prepared for the details. This time, I clutched my bag for safety and then allowed my eyes to fully widen and my jaw to drop. The closer I got, the more I realized it's everything everyone said it would be and so much more! Make sure you check out the Museum too.
We made a quick stop at Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II (Milan's living room), full of luxury brands like Dior and Gucci. It always surprises me to see so many people shopping. I can't wait for the day when I can own a luxury brand item. It was too early in the morning for me to have a Campari, but the famous café was already full with both coffee and cocktail drinkers.
Next stop: Uniqlo. I wanted to see if it was worth all the hype. And wow, it really is! I was in there for an hour. I spent double what I intended to and then came back home to order more because I now had a good idea of the sizes. I got a helpful tip from a colleague to read the labels to ensure I was buying what I wanted and not what was being cleverly marketed.
We passed the Starbucks Reserve, where the line was extremely and ridiculously long. And there were big burly bouncers checking everyone's bags...I like my Frappuccinos too but Italy, in my humble experience, has great coffee bars.. and you're spoilt for choice.... there is almost atleast one on every street...
I caught a glimpse of the Castello Sforzesco entrance ...
We headed to the Brera District for lunch and finished the day with pizza, white wine, and people-watching. I have never seen so many luxury designer bags in my life. I spotted at least five Hermès bags within 30 minutes of each other. I would like to know if Milan is operating in the same economy as the rest of us....
Is Milan worth it? Yes, for the day, at least. I will be returning.

Attempting to adult: self-care and the quest for balance in the disappointment that is 2025
Saturday, 23 August 2025
Fitness Update #9: Maintaining a calorie deficit while keeping fit and sane during an Italian Summer (Heatwave!?🥹)
Sunday, 17 August 2025
-No Canestrelli
-No biscotti
- No double chocolate muffins
- No Starbucks Brown Sugar Shaken Espresso (with cream)
- No almond croissant
- No pistachio croissant
- No glazed donuts
- No juice
- No lemonsoda
- No prosecco
- No piccolo from La Romana
- No Aperol spritz with ice (no aperitivo either)
- No cocktails
- No Burger King
- No KFC
- No brownies with cream!
Just counting calories and making sure I reach my daily macro goals because I decided to go on a calorie deficit at the end of July in Italy, just after the first heatwave and before the second one.
It may seem foolish, but this pandemic weight has over stayed and it needs to go.
I know... I know ....It may not look like it, but I am putting myself first.
I’ve become more active and improved my eating habits; now I just need to stop wearing XL sizes in Italy. Surprisingly, everything has been working well. I’m battling through the hunger pangs and still managing to stay active every day with walks and resistance training.
On August 13, a heatwave warning came through online. I left the office for my evening 40-minute walk and kept a good pace because I needed to stop by the supermarket. Ferragosto was just a day or two away, and the population of Turin was dwindling as people retreated to the beach, with all the shops, bars and cafes closing. I didn’t want to worry about food for the next couple of days.
I came home with three shopping bags, drenched in sweat. The sunscreen was peeling off my face in order of the layers of application and re-application throughout my day. Using the last reserves of my energy, I climbed the last two flights of stairs to my apartment on the top floor. My neighbor, whom I hadn't seen in three months, swings open her front door and looks at me with pity. "I’m so sorry; it must be hotter than where you came from. I'm here if you need anything."
Yes, it is hotter, I thought, but I did this to myself, Signora.ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ I need to keep up my routine so I can lose the weight. I didn’t have the heart to tell her all this, so I simply nodded.
On August 14, it was 36 degrees outside, and I was working from home, with occasional dizzy spells while sitting on the couch. I finished my work early and did my resistance exercises with heightened awareness because I couldn’t afford to faint in this heat when everything is closing for the August holiday. Luckily I felt fine afterward, had dinner, and slept like a baby.
On August 15, I headed to work, and it was humid; I felt sticky within four hours of leaving home. I was surprised that I managed to have protein and fiber at lunchtime, with only complex carbs and protein—my body had no complaints. As I proceeded with my evening walk, it felt like I was walking through a sauna for 40 minutes with no cold plunge breaks. I made it home without feeling dizzy, but my back and knees ached. After dinner, I checked to see if I had reached my daily macros and slept like a baby again.
I am using an app to track my meals, and it is dawning on me how much I was overeating pre-deficit. That muffin with my cappuccino in the morning, that Starbucks coffee every other week, the occasional ice cream and cone on the way home, the dessert with my lunch then KFC burger or wrap for dinner... all while lying to myself that because I am now active I am burning it off...not good...not good at all. I also learnt I wasn't drinking enough water and yet somehow I thought I was🤦♀️... this app and the heatwave helped me double my intake, especially now that I am eating more fiber.
Now I have to be creative...I want to maintain my exercise routine because my mood has improved, and I feel good about myself, so I need to ensure I’m fueling my workouts while staying in a deficit. This is a great challenge for me and I am enjoying using my motivation and self-discipline tackling it. A lot of this is mostly pacing myself, being in tune with how I am feeling and knowing what my body can do in the moment.
What about you? What crazy things are you up to this summer? How committed are you to putting yourself first? Share in the comments.
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